THE PENIS SIZE

The “D” size

“…. Ooh try a man with a big ‘thing’, you will feel the sweetness you have been missing all along” another one asks, “it doesn’t hurt?” they look at her as if she comes from another planet. She ignores asks again, “how does one know he has long one?” another answers, “people from ..…..” I just heard women discussing it! You thought they don’t discuss it?  Mister, just be in the wrong place at the right time, you will be surprised. But does penis size really matter!? Let’s dive in……and see,

What affects the size?

The penis size can be determined by different factors at different time in one particular man: Arousal level, time of the day room temperature, frequency of sexual activity and reliability of measurement are the natural factors that can cause a variation of size in one person.

Penis size can also be affected by culture, diet, endocrine disruption resulting from chemicals exposure and fertility drugs which are estrogen based.

Penis growth happens in between infancy and age of five and also in the puberty years.

Since ancient world the big penis is linked to higher self esteem.

What is an average penis size?

A study published by Veale et al. of medical research show that when erect the average penis size is between 5.5 to 6.2 inches in length and 4.7 to 5.1 inches around. Don’t go trying to measure yours!

No one and I repeat no one has longer or a wider penis because they come from a particular race or because he is tall, all this are just myths.

Does the size really matter?

“Size queen” is a term or slang for anyone who would want a man with a big than average penis.

For women the most important factor is the Psychological connection not the penis size. When women come to list of priorities penis size is down there. Penis size is never equal to an organism that why women don’t care as much about it. So a man should worry more about pleasure he is giving rather than the size.

If she is complaining about the size, the higher probability is not the size but she is not getting organisms

SOLUTIONS

  • Shave that area; why look like a natural forest…it is not funny!
  • change styles to ones that encourage clitoral stimulation, for example lady on top enhanced by adding pillows on your buttocks, missionary style with her legs on your shoulder, entering from behind and who said you can’t be more creative!
  • Women should move in circular motion if he has a thin penis.
  • Foreplay;15 minutes of erotic foreplay with a guy who has a penis size which is considered small can go along way in satisfying a woman compared to a guy who has a big penis putting it in and out for five minutes.

Men, have confidence, women look at you from a very different angle and when they look at that penis, it looks bigger to them than it looks to you.

CANTICLE OF CANTICLES 1

Song of Songs 1

Canticle of canticles or Songs of songs as it is commonly known is wonderful song than any other. Poetry and songs composed on Love  are so appealing to the Heart, mind and the body.

Many interpret this book in spiritual manner but i have interpreted it in a literal manner;  just like i feel it!

HERE IS CHAPTER 1.

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine.  Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes; your name is like perfume poured out. No wonder the young women love you! Take me away with you—let us hurry! Let the king bring me into his chambers. We rejoice and delight in you; we will praise your love more than wine. How right they are to adore you!”

She yearning to enjoy receiving kisses from the one she loves.Wine intoxicates but the love of his handsome man does more than that. This man has a character which makes him to be loved not only by her but by others. “take me away” shows she wants to be with him, him whom her love belongs to. The king has welcomed me into his bedroom “chambers”, he has welcomed her into his Heart (they are not yet married) The audience daughters of Jerusalem can see what is happening to this maiden and they are happy for her “we will be glad and rejoice in you”, how many friends are happy for you?

Dark am I, yet lovely, daughters of Jerusalem, dark like the tents of Kedar, like the tent curtains of Solomon.  Do not stare at me because I am dark, because I am darkened by the sun. My mother’s sons were angry with me and made me take care of the vineyards; my own vineyard I had to neglect.”

 She feels unworthy (it happens to all of us) of his love but she as well encourages herself, “i am dark but lovely” this young man does not mind how dark she is he loves her just the way she is. (Someone to love the way you are will come)

She oppressed by “angry brothers” but I guess this had created in her a virtue of humility which is very attractive.

Tell me, you whom I love, where you graze your flock and where you rest your sheep at midday. Why should I be like a veiled woman beside the flocks of your friends?”

She wishes to know where her special man is, she does not want to look silly, roaming all over looking for any man. She is mindful of her reputation and also respects his Lover’s time; she wishes to go to him when he is free maybe at “midday”

“If you do not know, most beautiful of women, follow the tracks of the sheep and graze your young goats by the tents of the shepherds.  I liken you, my darling, to a mare among Pharaoh’s chariot horses.  Your cheeks are beautiful with earrings, your neck with strings of jewels. We will make you earrings of gold, studded with silver.”

The maiden is welcome to follow this young man with a tease, “follow the tracks of my flock”, he is also in need of companionship. The stallions are male horses, mare/filly is a female horse and so a mare (maiden) is exciting among stallions (young man). When they are together she is exciting which is sexual attraction.

He does recognize how she has made herself beautiful with jewelry (men it is our work to recognize and acknowledge beauty). The daughters of Jerusalem also felt the need to participate in helping her look more beautiful which means, if a woman is treated well in public by his lover she earns the respect from others around her.

While the king was at his table, my perfume spread its fragrance. My beloved is to me a sachet of myrrh resting between my breasts. My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms from the vineyards of En Gedi”

Some versions say “enchanted” some others “spikenard” which simply means that the Beauty of the maiden is pulling the young man to her and she is aware of it, she is also aware that she is attracted to him which strikes a balance. This calls for commitment when she thinks of him, she does so in a good way even though they are not together; this is being secure

En-gedi when checked on the maps dry place and for a vineyard to produce there is great need of water, so there was an oasis surrounded by desert; that how this handsome young man is compared with other men “an oasis” simply meaning he stood out.

How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes are doves.”

He repeats it twice, did you notice? He is emphasizing of how he is feeling of her beauty. Someone told me, eyes says everything even what you would want to hide, no wonder Solomon says, “You have dove’s eyes” he is not only speaking of their physical beauty but also of the beauty reflected from the inside.

How handsome you are, my beloved! Oh, how charming! And our bed is verdant.The beams of our house are cedars; our rafters are firs.”

The appearance of the young man (Solomon) is handsome. From their eyes the beauty of their surrounding is beautiful which is very important to anyone. Keep yourself in a good surrounding it resonates who you are and what you represent as person.

The paradox is what causes Love sickness is also its cure.

SEX AND MARRIAGE

Sex was created by God and pronounced good in Eden.

Love is a lifelong commitment.

Sexual intercourse, the physical, and the emotional union as well as the spiritual union is Holy and a means of celebrating Love, procreation and experiencing pleasure in marriage commitment.

Sex to God is important that is why it is in the Bible different scriptures. A good example is in songs of Solomon. 8 full Bible chapters dedicated in speaking to us a great story of Love between Solomon (handsome young man)and the maiden (Beautiful shulamite)

How wonderfully they speak of each other? They express their longings, pain and joys, as well as their fascination with their lovers. Their love is portrayed thoroughly through their desire, behaviors, feelings and how they speak to each other they just make the imagination go wild followed by an antisense body response. The longings and desire is gratified by a marriage and what happens next leaves us wanting for more!

Imagine all that is in the Bible! The word of God! Sex and Love are proper and God given. Songs of Solomon expresses the Almighty perspective.

God created sex and intimacy; they are good and holy, just enjoy them in marriage confinement.

Sex should be motivated by Love and commitment. Purity and sacredness of Love are very important. Just put in mind the power that Erotic Love has on them that are drunk by it!

Romance is interesting, the touching, pricking, sucking, the sweet words, and the cherishing, oooh…. Romance is fantafabulous!

Beauty (outer) the hips, the lips, the dove like eyes, oooh…those legs! are important more so is the inner Beauty important;it does not fade away.

To sum it up commitment keeps us going even when the going gets touch

YES,.. THIS IS WHAT THIS BLOG IS ALL ABOUT; SEX AND MARRIAGE. MORE GREAT ARTICLES TO COME.